There are many books about divorce. These books, however, put your children first and help you find new ways to approach your spouse during and after the divorce.
Divorce Mediation In Oregon by Julie Gentili Armbrust
Kids First by the Kids First Center (I have copies for my clients to check-out)
How to Help Your Child Overcome Your Divorce by Elissa P. Benedek, M.D.
Good Parenting Through Your Divorce by Mary Ellen Hannibal
Making Divorce Easier on Your Child by Nicholas Long, Ph.D. and Rex Forehand Ph.D.
The Truth about Children and Divorce by Robert Emory, Ph.D.
A Man’s Guide to a Civilized Divorce by Sam Margulies, Ph.D., J.D.
Two Homes by Claire Masurel